What are you even talking about? Is it also "grinding" to kill enemies with a 20-unit army and a cart, dealing around 100 damage? If you like clicking quickly, go play Starcraft or CS, stop promoting such terrible ideas here.
If you want to think calmly, you can analyze games, play correspondence games, create puzzles, etc. But in tournament games, time control is a serious strategic element that requires appropriate attention.
I don't see any reason why it should be different in Heroes.