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in the real world, there is only one, and stereotypical views certainly exist, and moreover, they are often true (I'm talking about Russia, I don't know how it is in other countries)! and there are many fantasy worlds, so highlighting one type of race seems not very appropriate, especially such a negative one, because it is found less often. IMHO) in games, of course, it is written that they love to dance, sing (I don't remember about wine, but they have it), and they are also agile, etc., but about the fact that they look down on everyone... if I remember correctly, I have never read anything like that in games (only in some books, well, and maybe you can say that about the High Elves), but they only wrote that they appeared earlier than others and that's it, so I can assume that someone put it in their head that they look down on everyone, because elves lead a less stressful life, have achieved great success, and live longer than humans)
I think that there are different elves (like people)... some are good, and some are bad, and it is stupid to put a stigma on the entire race.