Appeals Committee. Disputed situations in tournaments.

That is, the two of you need to be supervised like little children, lest you clash, heaven forbid. And if punishments for your mutual sniping had been handed out from the start — perhaps it would have been calmer.
Hell, let’s just play Heroes instead, shall we?

"both of you" — if referring to girls, my profile clearly says "male" :)
On the substance — I’m not just not against it, I’m in favor of strict moderation. I’m confident in what I write, and I’ll say that I never allowed myself to provoke him out of nowhere; it was only due to the moderators’ leniency that I usually responded to his posts in the same tone he set... if anyone found it unpleasant to read — my apologies — now I simply ignore such antics or respond within the rules. As a result, he alone got a well-deserved 7-day ban.
P.S. And in general... if you say something — stick by it:

That’s it, I’m not writing here anymore and I’m not engaging in polemics. Others will write without me tomorrow, there are plenty of enthusiasts

...but instead, everyone gives their own opinions and even asks questions — and then I have to explain to each one why this or that... so it turns out my posts get under people’s skin... by the way, I have ICQ 466-212-416... it’s better to write there for many things.