Creating unified inter-portal rules.

I take about 6 minutes, and sometimes even more. I don't have enough time at the very beginning when I move each hero one square at a time, looking for the lumber mill, the mine, and generally trying to figure out where I am. Also, I desperately lack time in the later stages of the game when I have to transfer the army in chains and distribute it among several heroes; I've lost several games because of this. There's no time left to scout the land and air.
I won't lie, sometimes it becomes unbearable to wait for the opponent to take their turn, but I never rush anyone, and it's not about the 2 minutes if my own turn takes 15-25 minutes. And I was very surprised by some players I played against who shouted that I was taking too long, urging me on, and I simply couldn't psychologically fully realize the potential of my turns, making mistakes in battles, rushing, but they themselves took longer than me!!!! In general, I take 6 minutes, and I just don't understand how you can play normally on 4 minutes with 4 players...

Added 6 minutes later
I suggest the following rule: if both players want to play with a 4-minute timer, then they play with a 4-minute timer, but if at least one of them wants to play with a 6-minute timer, then they should play with a 6-minute timer.