This is the worst thing; a man should be the one earning the money.
I sympathize; it seems you'll end up with a wife who likes to live off others....
A girl should be morally better than a guy; she should understand art better, have a more refined sense of it, be more honest and kinder, but now it seems to be the opposite.
Like Beauty and the Beast?))) I advise you to boost your self-esteem.
In my opinion, a girl should be modest. If she has a husband/boyfriend, she should never flirt or show attention to other men.
Also, I think women shouldn't work, unless it's something like drawing, singing, or something along those lines.
"Modest" – I agree with that. But the idea of not showing attention is nonsense. It shows that you are very jealous and want to put your significant other in a cage.
But if we're being serious, what kind of nonsense are you guys writing? What kind of household? What kind of singing? A girl should be natural!!! If she's a dumb blonde who only knows all the nearby beauty salons, always thinking about clothes or whatever else that type of woman thinks about? - In short, you get my point.
The main difference between a girl and a guy is that a girl (any girl) is more emotional (and emotionally vulnerable). They are prone to greater worries and so on (but don't go overboard; hysterics are not included here). This is one of the defining qualities of "femininity." THAT'S IT! A girl should be feminine. The main task of a guy is to protect his girl, support her, help her, be the foundation of her peace of mind in life. And what she does for work and so on is a secondary matter. Even a businesswoman can be just as light and vulnerable, gentle and sweet in everyday life, and it doesn't matter if she's a harsh Cerberus at work – the world is made up of masks!
And in general, all sorts of stereotypes are a very stupid thing. If two people are good together, their activities don't matter. In general, to love, asking permission from third parties... well, that's for cowards.
By the way, work also depends on character; if a guy wants to, he will work, and obligation is not always the reason.
In short, what I want to say is that neither sex has any flaws! And it can't. Some people may not like blondes, while others go crazy for them and consider all her flaws to be pluses – get it? Exactly, flaws are an exclusively subjective concept, and by the way, they MUST exist! An ideal, even if it exists (and it can probably be found), will get boring very quickly, unless, of course, you are so calculating that marriage is just a means for you to leave an inheritance or simply expand your business (a marriage of convenience).
Well, I've gone off on a tangent again...
I'll jot down a little about my wonderful ideal...:o
A sweet and tender girl (appearance is not important, just initially she should be attractive), primarily smart and interesting...mmm...unpredictable, but not too much, rather able to pleasantly surprise, understanding, affectionate, and possessing a certain charm (although this is also a relative concept).
