I remember there was a discussion on the forum a long time ago, "what is your ideal guy/girl," where everyone wrote about how their ideal girls have big... hearts and how their ideal guys have a great... interest in beauty. Okay, jokes aside, we all get annoyed by something in our partner, and not just in our partner, but also in girls (guys) in general. Personally, besides the standard flaws, I'm most surprised by something else. Namely, the worldview of many girls, and in particular, their life goals. Many women these days believe that they must be successful, work, because housewives are just stupid hens, they should be in business or politics, then they are "smart" and successful women. And what surprises me is that girls want to become... shopkeepers, because that's exactly what it is! Not to create something with their own hands, not to be passionate about art, to draw, sing, do music, or just improve themselves, read (but not Nietzsche and Machiavelli, but, for example, Hugo), they just want to rake in money, they get into this disgusting industry, strive for great victories, value petty meanness, value subtle falseness and skillful bluff, and at the same time, they completely stop being women. And that's the worst thing, money should be earned by a man, even if he's a shopkeeper (okay, a businessman), he should cope with difficulties with honor, and most importantly, remain honest, otherwise his success is worthless. A girl should be morally better than a guy, she should understand art better, feel it more subtly, be more honest and kinder, but now it turns out to be the opposite.