Mallas the Dragon, don't worry so much. Happiness isn't found in messages! I also experience messages disappearing from time to time, including those caused by my own activity. At least 20 messages have disappeared in the last week, for sure. And these aren't even spam posts, but posts left in useless topics that weren't deleted but were simply forgotten. Just be patient a little longer, and the counters will stop dropping soon. And make your messages more substantial! Even if it's just one line. This significantly reduces the chances of it being subjected to harsh treatment and then sent into oblivion. In other words, "gently" deleted. Only coordinators and admins can delete messages from the database.
Well, in principle, you're right. I agree with you; I don't remember spamming much, but I did have posts in useless topics. I confess.
Ангел пропел и полопалась кожа...
Мы выпили жизнь, но не стали мудрей,
Мы прожили смерть, но не стали моложе...
Агата Кристи
Ты должен быть сильным,
Ты должен уметь сказать: Руки прочь, прочь от меня,
Ты должен быть сильным, иначе зачем тебе быть?!
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