A small pub near Fludoscarr.

TO: Lelya, just tell him that he is your friend, well, almost like a girlfriend, but not more than that, and that he will always be just a friend. That's basically it. The only thing is, do you want to continue communicating with him or not? If not, then that's a completely different question. Once you answer, I'll give you some advice.
Moreover, my good friend has tried this approach, and it has worked many times.