You don't seem to notice that our dear little one is reducing everyone's BD, while you, with an apostolic look, call for forgiveness? This is not humanism, but indulgence! When a child eats not with a spoon, but with his hands, he is taught, and not told: "Oh, well, he's small, what can you do..."
And normal parents don't hit a child on the hands when he eats with his hands ;) They explain it to him in words, and not with insults ;)
Or now, for every minus he receives, will he have to account for it, proving that it is not out of personal dislike, but for the message?
Catch, when I was 9, I didn't break into a symposium with my father and start making nonsensical speeches, interrupting the speakers.
The analogy is extremely simple and clear, I think?