Regarding the skill build. In my opinion, you can take either attack or defense, don't upgrade attack skills (unless it's Battle Balance), and upgrade defense to the maximum, which is easy to achieve. If you ignore defense, you can upgrade attack to Retribution; high morale won't hurt the dwarves due to their average initiative, and it would be good to add luck here, but considering that the dwarf also gets magic and education, luck will only be available in a very long game.
Bow down and hear our cry,
Our earthly rulers falter,
Our people drift and die,
The walls of gold entomb us,
The swords of scorn divide,
Take not thy thunder from us,
Take away our pride.
G.K. Chesterton: English Hymnal