We played for 3 days; by Thursday it was already time to sleep. On Saturday, the other person disconnected, and I never heard back from him (it seems he had some issues with his provider). Today we didn't finish the game either. Actually, the person surrendered on 215.
He saw that I took the Dragon Utopia and gained a bit of ground, so he decided not to continue the game. He looked at the map and still didn't understand why the hydra recruitment and the swamp secondary skill hadn't been taken... if they had been taken, it might have been impossible to win.