Knights of Tezoth

So no one has answered me yet as to what is cooler: being a man or a woman according to this mechanic.

It depends on a whole range of factors, including the build or the concept of the character itself. It's hard to overstate the value of skill slots; well, yes, I once promoted such a concept myself (I think even in a DM to you). But if your character already has enough slots for what is necessary, then stats become more desirable.

As I recently told Yashchur, a conditional ten stats = 3 SP and 3 AP. And if you have a skill that you want to spam, then such a perk looks more pleasant than an additional skill. The ways of converting stats into learning also lean more in favor of M, but there are certain nuances and a price to pay for such an opportunity. Of course, on the flip side, it could turn out that the difference in stats will only play a role in the early stages and will subsequently be compensated by leveling or items, but I can't say anything regarding that. I can only say that one wants as many stats and learning capacity as possible, and therefore neither of the bonuses feels useless.