We’ve turned into a Hive, things are getting serious.

1. Appearance: Neiko: 1; Neiko's husband: 1
2. Height: Neiko: 1; Neiko's husband: 0. A few centimeters don't really count as an advantage, but let's say it is.
3. Physical fitness: Neiko: 0; Neiko's husband: 1
4. Personal income: Neiko: 0; Neiko's husband: 1
5. Parents' income: Neiko: 1; Neiko's husband: 1
6. Who invested more in the purchase of real estate: Neiko: 0; Neiko's husband: 1
7. Social connections: Neiko: 1; Neiko's husband: 1

Neiko: 4
Neiko's husband: 6

Your husband wins. It's a stretch, but still. The sixth point was counted in his favor because his family's income was actually spent. Even if we assume a 1:1 in the third point, and your victory in the seventh, it's a tie.
All my acquaintances, roughly my age, either significantly outperform their women, or they spend most of their lives alone because no one wants them due to their appearance and income. That is, everyone who has a woman is either attractive enough or earns enough and isn't too ugly.
I'm not very aware of the situation of the women I studied with at university. But for those I know about, their husbands also win. One of them, being a girl from the Odessa region, ended up in Moscow with a good job (even before 2022). Guess who she owes it to.
But for people of my parents' age, it's mostly a tie. Which, in a way, hints at a changed situation.
I don't know any examples where a man loses in everything. I haven't even seen it on the internet. But I'm sure it happens. Maybe 0.001%. Or in countries where women don't have rights and freedoms.

The gap is in her favor in terms of appearance, height, weight, and social connections, and in terms of housing, because he just lives in her apartment.

I don't believe that. Not in the sense that you're lying, but in the sense that he's probably normal-looking, you just subconsciously downplayed him and exaggerated her