Sacred Haven of Debauchery

The problem isn't my figure. I've always been called a fat slob, even when I weighed less than I should and was objectively thin. At best, I was a non-entity for men, receiving zero attention and zero emotions. All attempts to meet someone were made when I didn't have my face as my profile picture. I'm not sure, but I think I initially naively shared a couple of photos of myself with people who wanted to get to know me, and I received a lot of nasty comments in return. So, the issue definitely isn't about excess weight.