Hey, you, tall guy!

You don't need it, most people do.

Yes, for those who want a purely casual relationship for one or two nights, it's really necessary.

But, I know a guy who, at around 45-50, started an affair with my acquaintance, who was 45+ (now she's a bit older, it was about 5 years ago). She has a great figure (yes, breasts, butt, waist, everything is in place), and she looks very good (she pays close attention to her appearance and spends a lot of money on maintaining a good appearance). As a bonus, she has a great sense of style and a really great wardrobe. Plus, she's quite pleasant to talk to and not a bitch.
The guy turned out to be married to a woman who is 50+ (she is definitely 5 years older than him, maybe more), with not the most pleasant appearance, and who doesn't care about taking care of herself at all. And, as it were, they don't have any children in common, and they don't have any jointly acquired property. There are actually no reasons to stay with her. On the contrary, he constantly complained to my acquaintance about how disgusting she is and how he doesn't know why he married her in the first place. But, when the beauty got tired of being a mistress and asked directly if the guy would leave his wife and be with her, the guy backed down. Rather, he first tried to continue sitting on two chairs, but when he realized that there was only one choice, he preferred to stay with the shitty wife. Although it would seem.