We’ve turned into a Hive, things are getting serious.

I had a close friend who was married to a very unattractive guy, even though she herself was a beautiful woman with a perfect figure. But she is an artist, and she liked that he was also a creative person. And before him, she had many less attractive boyfriends (there were also handsome ones), as well as quite ordinary girls (she is open to communication 😎).
In the end, she kicked him out of her house not because "he was ugly," but because he quit his job and went downhill almost a year after the wedding, deciding to completely live off her. And before that, everything seemed to be okay, and she didn't complain about his evening beer. But when it turned into 1-2 bottles of vodka a day, the guy was sent on his way.

And based on her experience, I am convinced that dating on online dating sites is a slow process.