Many of my female friends and I have had extremely negative experiences on dating sites. There are tons of creeps who send messages like "give me a blowjob" (this is a real example, if you need it), along with people who are mentally unstable and raise some concerns. And finding a decent guy with average looks and a normal personality is like finding a mythical creature.
Unfortunately, there aren't enough of them for all of us... it's a tough life for women...
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