We’ve turned into a Hive, things are getting serious.

As they say, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

No. Beauty is clearly defined parameters. You can Google the golden ratio, correct proportions of the face, body, etc. Or ask Kosha, she understands this better than I do. There is also the factor of rarity, which also works. And you probably mean subjective preferences. Like hair color, eye color, hairstyle, style of clothing, image, etc. Out of two beautiful women, I would choose an elf, and Ment would choose a traditional wife. In such cases, beauty is really in the eye of the beholder.

And if a person is suitable in all respects as a person, and looks at least not repulsive to the partner's subjective taste, then all this appearance goes out the window.

It doesn't go out the window. Out of two people with the same character, they will choose the one who is more beautiful.

In the end, you live with the person, not with their ideal height. And with age, we all become less attractive, what can you do?

You are reasoning like an adult woman, with above-average intelligence and certain principles. All statistics show that most people will soon have (or already have) what your friend has.
A person who was beautiful in their youth will be more beautiful than the same old person, even if they are a loser.

But if you get hung up on height or that God forbid a person has even one pimple or other flaw on their face. Or how about not having an ideal fitness figure? Then welcome to the cozy world of loneliness, which some people actually enjoy.

Some. Not that many people are comfortable being alone, and they don't get hung up on it.

Added 3 minutes ago

I must have missed the moment when the topic about "everything is serious" actually became serious.

I still hope that Nebo is just joking.

Blackpill is the BASE, the GROUND, the FOUNDATION, the CORE! (not a joke)

Added 2 minutes ago

Nebo has just seen too many profiles of young, righteous Christian virgins with three children.