We’ve turned into a Hive, things are getting serious.

Yeah, I did that too, back in college 🤣. But then I listened to myself and realized that my desire to have a boyfriend was solely motivated by the idea of "having what everyone else has, so I don't feel left out," and after that realization, things became much easier. I have enough work and hobbies that take up my time, so adding a relationship on top of that? No thanks, I still need to help all the settlements.