We’ve turned into a Hive, things are getting serious.

And the current boyfriend might not be an elf, but he's a great substitute for a dad. The whole family has been playing games together after work/school for over 7 years and enjoying life.

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Ogre 190+?

More likely, a goblin ~180

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And the current one is probably a hobbit, as he's shorter than 170. In terms of size, he's more like a generic Sam, meaning he's not skinny.