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☀️ Arselia and Akonia

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"People have such difficulties..." the myconid thinks, tasting the aura of the succubus. "Am I a doctor or something?" She ponders the seemingly simple task for a while 🤔 "Your problem, while not unique, is certainly not entirely ordinary, and therefore requires a comprehensive solution," she finally says. "You are absolutely right that you shouldn't rush to complain, because strong and harmonious relationships are rare and should be cherished and protected, trying not to involve everyday matters in them. However, you should understand that sooner or later, you will burn out with such a regime. In this story, I see a short-term and a long-term solution, and it would be best to implement both. First of all, in the near future, you need to hire a waiter - preferably a male one. Don't think that I'm implying anything, it's just that, with your workload, it will be a great help. If I remember correctly, you posted an ad from your restaurant in the SRI? How long ago did you post it - this month or earlier? If you haven't been able to hire anyone for a long time, then maybe you should slightly change the job requirements. For example, hire not only player characters, but also NPCs. Or another option - young people these days refuse to work for what they consider to be "low pay." The fact that their grandfathers worked 16 hours a day just for food, slept in shacks, and didn't complain, is no longer of interest to them. So, maybe you should slightly increase the salary and see the result? But, of course, you should proceed based on your capabilities. However, you should understand that if this regime overwhelms you and, God forbid, you get sick and bedridden, then any additional expense on an employee will seem like a trivial amount compared to the actual reality. Secondly, you definitely need a short vacation in the very near future to restore your strength at the moment. With the amount of work you do, it's a miracle that you're still on your feet. Thirdly, and most importantly... Do you have a child? If you already have one, have another. If not, then you definitely need to have one. You need helpers and future heirs for your family business, and besides, you will be able to take a much-needed break from work. Yes, someone might say that taking care of a child is also work, and responsible work at that, but it is still not a continuous metaphorical "spear-throwing," if I may say so, for 16 hours a day, but rather what we are all destined for by higher powers. This will not only benefit your physical, but also your mental well-being, and will give both you and your husband the energy to make your family business thrive. "Try these options. If you really hit a wall, then as a last resort, you can always talk to him heart to heart and explain your difficulties. Being a loving husband, with whom you are connected by so much, I am sure that he will listen to you - seeing your suffering would surely be even harder for him than for you to experience it all. But - if you are afraid that this may damage your marital atmosphere, then try the options described above. Of course, I understand that I do not know the subtle nuances of your life with him, and I cannot take them all into account, but in my opinion, you should try to implement these. By finding the energy to live, you won't even have time to blink before his temperament stops bothering you.
My sword, my trusted ally, unphased by my aspect.