Ple-Sen
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He must be a man whose offspring I wouldn't find unbearable to bring into this world. First, he must possess great strength, whether magical or martial, it doesn't matter; the main thing is that a man who cannot defend himself is an utterly pathetic sight. Of course, he can be a "good person," an exemplary citizen, and so on, but from the point of view of sexual attraction, such a person would not be of any interest at all. Second, he must not be a virgin, but rather possess extensive experience in intimate relationships with women... Being with a boy who doesn't even know how to use his own body would be extremely sad and, in a way, even repulsive. Third, he must not have any authorities, no matter who they are – his beloved woman, his homeland, his faith, or anything else; the dominance over his soul must belong to his own heart and the beliefs and views born within it. Fourth, he must be straightforward in his intentions, words, and actions; deceit, cunning, and even euphemisms in speech are the domain of lesser men, unworthy of my attention, although I allow cunning towards enemies and rivals. Fifth, he must never tolerate disrespectful treatment towards himself, apologize, ask anyone for permission for anything, or otherwise demean his dignity – he must be like a hurricane or another natural disaster, cruel and unyielding.