War has a feminine face...

Well, war is still worse.

If we talk about our country (abstracting a bit from the topic), the army, although it doesn't cause as many human casualties as war, still maims people both physically and morally, and secondly, and most importantly, it's not for the sake of saving the Motherland, unlike war, but simply to please a bunch of freaks...
That's what's worse. To die for your country, bringing at least some, even if it's just being a cog in the machine, benefit - or to come home with frostbitten and amputated feet due to a few scumbags, and then wander around as a useless invalid, unwanted by anyone - do you feel the difference?

Although, of course, the best thing is just to live... to live a healthy life. :(