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Those who reproduce or do it "protected" after a child is born usually either successfully dump the offspring on the older generation, or in their home children grow like weeds because they simply aren't taken care of. Both are, essentially, marginal scenarios.
Responsible people spend too much time and energy on a child to have any resources left for lifering.
Probably Nebo means that having a family is lifering itself, not "free time for personal pursuits."