Victim shaming.
I think everything here is obvious and clear.
She saw what she wanted to see.
I, of course, will no longer make excuses.

Cheating — is bad. Regardless of whether he's a Chad, not a Chad, a millionaire, not a millionaire. Someone just puts up with it because: she's afraid (he beats her, throws watermelons, threatens to take away the kids/do something bad to her, the kids, or relatives), she's dependent ("she's sitting on his neck" — because he once said she didn't need to work, and she was only too happy about it), she cheats herself. All of this is not mutually exclusive. Sometimes she's dependent on the money not in the sense of sitting on his neck, but simply because she doesn't give a damn about him, and she sees just a wallet with money and drains it. Just so you know, I don't justify cheating women. The game was even, two pieces of shit were playing.
Okay.

Небо – угроз не слышит
Небо – ведёт особый счёт
Небо – тебя найдёт