Nope. You are much smarter than both of them combined, and I respect you, so I try to kindly say that I find it inappropriate when something like this happens occasionally.
If anything, I have no complaints about you specifically; your comments are usually restrained and polite, and you are an example to follow in this regard. If everyone behaved like that, I wouldn't have left.
And what kind of mafia was it?
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