I actually see this more often in TBS games than in RTS games. As well as the instant repurchase of units.
The same as monitoring, say, mines in Heroes.
But in general, my main argument is that when it's YOUR TURN in a game, you don't have to worry about anything. Perhaps this isn't the case everywhere, but for the most part, you can calmly plan, knowing that suddenly nothing bad won't happen, unless the power goes out in your house. And that's always been super boring for me.