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And yes, I will note that there was indeed a certain degree of cynicism regarding more successful people – a defensive mechanism against self-destruction. But I still don't quite understand and share your dislike for those who have achieved everything through their own efforts.

There is no such thing as "achieved everything through their own efforts." Simply because there are many people who did the same, or even better, but achieved nothing. And someone just happened to be in the right place, at the right time, and "achieved" something. They got lucky at the right moment. And others didn't, that's all.

But you are wrong to think that people achieve everything only thanks to luck. There are a lot of people who cope with everything, overcoming a ton of crap on their own, because they have enough willpower (I wouldn't mind being able to not give up until victory...).

It's all thanks to luck. I'm not saying that they didn't do anything and everything just happened. I'm saying, again, that there are many people who did the same and achieved nothing.
And where did they get this willpower from?))) Did they achieve it themselves?)))
Well, they overcame it, and that's fine, but there's no need to bullshit about the fact that everyone can do it, you just need to try. Enjoy yourselves in your luxurious corner and don't act superior.

I read the article. The advice to see a psychiatrist is good, of course. But you already wrote that yourself. As for some other points, they are obvious things that I already understand, and I don't argue with them. But overall

Problems of the first world :smile26:

I hope that when I see a psychiatrist, he will call my model girlfriend so that she can fly in from France as soon as possible)))) Even unconsciously, they act superior with this kind of crap, oh my god...

One could also mention that just seeing scantily clad girls puts Nebka in a bad mood.

Well, you're exaggerating. Zero is my best mood when I can calmly work 8+ hours and not pay attention to anything. And they take it from -70 to -a lot.

Well, yes, this is even a much bigger red flag than dislike for successful people.

Can I do something about the people I see on the street in the summer? No. And with someone else who is not on the street? No. And with at least someone normal? No. And can I do something about the fact that I can't do anything? No, you are a poor loser. Hmm, indeed, a very deep problem.

Okay, let's stop wallowing in my self-pity. I'm already disgusted with myself. Thank you all for the moral support. At least somewhere I can vent normally.