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Out of everything you've written, Nebok, I can only point out that I didn't say you need a psychologist. Such a specialist won't help you and will only be a waste of time. I was talking about a psychiatrist. That's a slightly different area of psychological correction... And yes, medication as part of psychotherapy is an effective thing. Especially if a person can no longer cope on their own.
You say that working on one's psyche is unproven nonsense, etc. I'm not going to argue that psychology is a difficult science to prove. But psychiatry is somewhat different, because at least there are medical clinical studies of brain impulses in certain situations. True, my knowledge in the field of these studies is very limited, because we studied psychology more as a branch of the educational process, and only touched on medical issues superficially. Although, if I hadn't slacked off in some classes, I might have known more, because some of our subjects were taught by a psychiatrist with real practice and a wealth of knowledge. But I didn't care much then... :(
There's really no point in seeking help from a psychologist. But accepting the fact that there's some kind of mess in your head (hello to the hatred of those who achieve everything through hard work and the unwillingness to realize that it's more about your subjective perception of them) and actually turning to psychiatry and medication, which you're afraid of becoming addicted to, would be a good idea.

And yes, I'll note that the degree of cynicism towards more successful people was indeed a defense mechanism against one's own self-destruction. But I still don't quite understand and share your dislike for those who have achieved everything on their own.
Indeed, boasting about being very successful because you've done a lot and gotten lucky isn't exactly okay, and it comes across as an attempt to put yourself above others. These people also need a certain kind of help, because it's an obvious sublimation of insecurity and an attempt to assert themselves at the expense of others.
But you're wrong to think that people achieve everything only through luck. A lot of people cope despite everything, clearing up a ton of crap on their own, because they have enough willpower (I wouldn't mind being able to not give up until victory...).
Unfortunately, when people boast about their achievements, it's impossible to tell from the outside how much they've actually put into it and what role luck played. Whether it's good to boast is obvious – no, especially if you put yourself above others in the process. Modesty is a virtue, but unfortunately, not all people possess it. However, hating people for overcoming obstacles is just making things worse for yourself.
Lustful Warship
Yes, yes, if it weren't for the digitalization of society, we would now be working at an iron foundry and wouldn't have any problems, but instead, they watch all these cartoons and then get depressed. Here, it's either only forward or far back.
It's been known for a long time – all problems come from anime.

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