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If the second partner doesn't have enough social experience to recognize such behavior (and it's usually obvious, I've known many people like that in real life), then that's how it should be.

She's to blame herself: cool:

The question isn't so much about how to classify the act, but rather what lies behind it. In the examples I made up, both characters manipulate their partner's emotions in an attempt to get what they want, with the only difference being that the second one does it openly and directly, unlike the first.