Sacred Haven of Debauchery

As for the guys, I can only say one thing – don't "stand in the corner."

Not quite right. Rather, both guys and girls should be advised to be bolder when it comes to those who are "okay" (not perfect).
And set reasonable expectations. If you reject everyone, you might end up in a bad situation...

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This means you need to take action.

Well, it's like, "a rolling stone gathers no moss"...