[ТУРНИР-HotA] Mirror Jebus

It's amazing how things change – what's the point of all this effort? You used to play on the same team in the Game of Thrones. You were the coordinator for your team, and your opponent today brought you the decisive tech point in the semi-final by not showing up for the ODD (Online Duel Day) that was scheduled a) after the semi-final deadline had passed and b) at the time he himself specified.
Is that one remarkable incident not enough to draw a conclusion and immediately request an ODD? Why is it better to remain in a state of uncertainty for 4 weeks, accumulate dissatisfaction, and then write a post like the one above?