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I read Revan's long post, which turned out not to be that long. Well, what can I say? You thought your life was bleak? I have some bad news for you.

I need a person whom I would put first in my life, above all else, for whom I would gladly return home after a workday, and not think about the many ways I could end my life. For whom I would want to strive to become better, about whom I would want to care with exceptional sincerity in my heart and warmth in my soul.

Neira has already expressed her opinion on this matter very cautiously, and I will explain how things really are. You hope that love will fill your soul, give you a sense of completeness, that by finding love, your consciousness and attitude towards life will change, and you will find happiness, but this is not the case. Yes, mutual love – if it is love, and not infatuation – will indeed give you wings for about six months. But then those six months will pass, you will look around and realize that nothing has changed, you still live in the CIS, you still receive a low salary, and so on. Okay, let's say you moved to Korea and found a high-paying job (not an easy task for a newcomer in any country, in my opinion, but never mind), so you have a Korean girl at your fingertips, but those same six months will pass, and everything will become routine, boring work, health problems, only now you can't even hide in anime – because your love requires your attention, and you will be left alone in your personal hell again. And this was the best-case scenario of all possible ones. How many less successful scenarios are there? Very many. When you realize that the infatuation was fleeting. When you fell in love with an ideal, but found yourself next to an unknown and alien person. When she agreed, and then refused. When you found out that she was cheating. In short, to summarize briefly, I would recommend that you do what you love – reflect and ask yourself – do you need a relationship, or do you need your own vision of relationships that should resolve the conflicts in your soul? Because if it's the latter, then I can almost guarantee that relationships will not help you with this.

There is a high chance that the profile is fake. If not, there is a high chance that the user will no longer log in to their page. If they do log in, there is a high chance that they will simply not be interested.

Perhaps it seems this way to me because I am not a pickup artist, but any attempts at a relationship imply 90% failure for one reason or another. Therefore, experienced people rely on the number of attempts, not the quality. Like fishing with nets.