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Of course, this is also one of the components. After all, I need a person whom I would put first in my life, above all else, for whom I would gladly return home after a workday, rather than thinking about the many ways I could end my life. For whom I would want to strive to become better myself, and about whom I would want to care with exceptional sincerity in my heart and warmth in my soul.
But if none of this exists, and I cannot experience such deep, romantic, and family feelings, then there is not much point in such a relationship. As I sometimes like to say, it's better to have a crane in the sky than a sparrow in the hand (better to have empty hands than a sparrow in them).
Also, I can't help but troll that you can also do many pleasant things with empty hands, just saying.
