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School years are the worst.

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Aziral, you are mistaken. It should be written as one word everywhere (:

Thank you, I have corrected it.

I hate school years from 1st to 9th grade, especially the 9th. I don't like 10th and 11th grade, although there were some good moments in them. The best time was in university - the best, brightest years, sincerely joyful and sad, of all the years I've lived so far, despite the fact that it was very difficult to study. I have something to say on the topic, but I can't formulate my thoughts right now.

I hate school years from 1st to 9th grade, especially the 9th. I don't like 10th and 11th grades either.

Why? I'm just curious (please explain for the others as well).

It’s very simple. From 6th to 9th grade, I was actively bullied, especially by one boy from a class that was later disbanded for children with some intellectual disabilities. They tormented, humiliated, and insulted me, and if I tried to do anything about it, they would beat me. In 10th grade, this boy left, and it became easier for me. There weren’t as many terrible instances of bullying as before, especially after I learned how to fight, but they still insulted and teased me a little. As a result, I have few pleasant memories of school.

school age itself is normal, but being at school is not something you can call enjoyable. There are fewer idiots on Instagram, and that's a plus.

I was also "on the fringes," mostly just hanging out and drawing. But I had good relationships with some people; I lived in the same building as one of them, and I had good relationships with others for a while, which we maintained. And with one guy, we were kind of friends (we still talk).

But luckily, there was no bullying; there was another guy who was the butt of jokes, even though he was part of the group. And in general, we all joked around with each other; the class was pretty normal.

In our class, the situation was somewhat different. My friends and I were somewhere in the middle, between those who were bullied and those who did the bullying, but there wasn't a single person who was bullied by everyone (there were also neutral people, so to speak, who weren't with either group). And we had pretty good relationships with both groups. We often defended those who were bullied, and the bullies would back down, probably because they didn't want to ruin their fairly good relationship with us.
In 10th and 11th grade, it was a little different because we ended up in different classes. But nothing like that happened either; no one bullied or humiliated anyone. There were only a few people who, at worst, would make noise and laugh in class.
It's still too early to draw conclusions about which period of life was better or worse, or are there any people here who are over 60?
I miss school because now I don't see my friends every day, only on weekends (and even then, not always), because it was easy to study there, and because I only had to walk 3-5 minutes to get to school. And of course, I'm grateful to it for the fact that I met my best friend there, and I doubt I'll ever meet someone who understands me more than he does.

I thought you considered me your best friend :(

well, maybe in a virtual setting... but no, you're upsetting me, and friends don't upset each other :smile06:

yeah, you're right.
but in general, it's good to have a best friend, you know. it's good that you have one.

I'm my own best friend. Others sometimes get on my nerves, but I always feel good in my own company. Sometimes you ask yourself, "How are you doing, Yuri?" You smile in the mirror, and life becomes three times more enjoyable.
I had many friends in college, but most of them just distracted me from the interesting lectures. When one of them died, I even secretly sighed with relief, although it still shook me up a lot...
I don't remember whether I liked school or not. I was a bit of a tough guy, and if they hadn't befriended me, no one would have been able to copy my homework! :) I didn't prevent one of my classmates from being bullied, but I didn't participate in it either, because I had already suffered enough from my older sisters (one half-sister and one full sister) and their friends.
No, school was definitely not the worst time. I've always found life interesting. I set goals and enjoy achieving them, but of course, people always come first for me, and I can't step on them unless they are evil people.
I agree with those who said that everything depends on your attitude towards each moment of life!

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I also really want a wife and children.

Ah, I used to love warming up in the mornings at school by chasing nerds around! It was a way to have fun and kill time. I'd smear their jackets with chalk, throw their backpacks into the toilet, and toss pencil cases with my best friend. I never stole their money, though; I wasn't a petty criminal. I had a lot of failing grades, but luckily, I learned easily and didn't have to study too hard; the material was easy.
But where did all that go?... :(